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What is a Cohabitation Agreement?
A Cohabitation Agreement is a contract between an unmarried couple who is romantically involved and preparing to live together. It outlines the rights and responsibilities of each person and makes provisions about how to divide the couple’s assets in the event they separate in the future. The agreement can cover some or all their assets and debts.
You can use this Cohabitation Agreement if you and your partner are two adults who are:
- In a de facto relationship
- Not married to each other
- Not related by family
- Living together, or planning to live together
Property (Relationships) Act 1976 governs the rights of cohabiting couples in New Zealand.
A Cohabitation Agreement is also known as a:
- Contracting out agreement
- Living together agreement
What is cohabitation?
Cohabitation is an arrangement between two romantically involved people who live together while unmarried.
What is a de facto relationship?
A de facto relationship is one in which two people live together as a couple.
Circumstances that demonstrate a de facto relationship include:
- Length of the relationship
- Nature and extent of any common residence
- Existence of a sexual relationship
- Degree of financial dependence or interdependence
- Ownership and use of property owned individually or together
- Degree of mutual commitment to a shared life
- Care and support of any children
- Performance of household duties
- Reputation and public aspects of the relationship (e.g. attending events together)
It’s not essential for all of the circumstances above to be present for the couple to be in a de facto relationship.
What are the differences between cohabitation and marriage?
Although cohabitation and marriage have some similarities in that they both deal with topics like debt responsibilities, division of assets, support payments, and information regarding children, there are key distinctions between the two, such as:
- A couple getting married needs to obtain a marriage license, wait a certain period of time, or hire an officiant. Cohabiting couples don’t require formal or legal steps to be taken.
- Ending a marriage requires the formal process of filing for divorce. Ending a cohabiting relationship can be an informal process, depending on the terms and conditions of your Cohabitation Agreement.
- When a married (or de facto) couple has a child, both parents automatically receive parental responsibility. If a cohabiting couple has a child, only the mother has parental responsibility unless the father is named on the birth certificate.
What does a Cohabitation Agreement do?
A Cohabitation Agreement protects both partners in a relationship and minimizes conflict in the event of a breakup. The agreement can cover topics such as:
- Separate assets: property or items one partner owns and retains all respective rights of ownership to after a breakup
- Shared assets: property or items both parties own that are divided after a breakup in whichever way is outlined in their Cohabitation Agreement
- Debt obligations: joint debts that both parties are responsible for in the event of a breakup (e.g., co-signed loans or real estate)
- Support payments: financial support that one party might give the other as outlined in the Cohabitation Agreement
Who should have a Cohabitation Agreement?
A Cohabitation Agreement is suitable for any couple who wants to remain unmarried while also having some of the rights of a married couple. They’re also useful for cohabiting couples who want to keep their individual debts separate from each other.
A Cohabitation Agreement also provides security if a partner passes away. It allows one partner to add to or restrict the other partner’s inheritance in combination with their Last Will and Testament.
How do I create a Cohabitation Agreement in New Zealand?
You can create a Cohabitation Agreement by completing LawDepot’s questionnaire. Using our template ensures you complete the following necessary steps.
1. State if you and your partner already live together
Start your Cohabitation Agreement by stating if you and your partner already live together. If you do, include the shared property’s address and when you moved in.
2. You and your partner provide your details
Include the names and genders of you and your partner in your Cohabitation Agreement.
3. Outline how household expenses will be split
Outline how you and your partner will split household expenses. If you won’t be splitting the expenses evenly, specify how they will be divided between the two of you. It’s common for cohabiting couples to decide on a percentage of the expenses each partner will be responsible for, or to assign specific expenses to each of you.
Household expenses can include:
- Mortgage or rent
- Utilities
- Phone
- TV (i.e., cable or satellite)
- Internet
- Groceries
- Property tax
If you’re using a joint bank account to pay your bills, also specify how much money each partner will contribute to the account per month.
4. Create a list of separate and shared assets/debts (if applicable)
If you and your partner have noteworthy assets or debts, attach a list or include them in your Cohabitation Agreement.
Separate assets or debts
Separate assets or debt are owned by only one partner in a cohabiting relationship. The owner retains control and responsibility of it in the event of a breakup. In other words, there will be no question as to who legally owns the asset or debt or whether the other party is entitled to it.
Shared assets or debts
Shared assets or debts are items, property, bank accounts, or loans you and your partner co-own or share responsibility for. In the event of a breakup, you can either divide the assets or debt between the two of you or one party can pay half of the value to the other party.
Shared assets can include real estate, vehicles, bank accounts or credit cards, furniture, or any other possessions you co-own with a partner.
It’s a good idea to specify how you’ll divide joint debt even if you currently don’t have any.
5. State if children are involved
Dependent children are biological or adopted children that the parents have a legal obligation to support. State if you and your spouse have any dependent children together or from a previous relationship.
Include the names and birthdays of all your dependent children in your Cohabitation Agreement.
6. Indicate if maintenance payments will be made in the event of a breakup
Maintenance is financial support from one spouse to the other in the event one of them can’t meet their own reasonable expenses after their de facto relationship has come to an end.
You and your partner can agree that one of you will pay maintenance to the other. If you can’t agree and apply to the court for maintenance, the party seeking financial support must demonstrate that they’re unable to adequately support themselves.
They also have to show they’ve been in a de facto relationship with their partner for at least three years or have a child together.
If maintenance payments are part of your Cohabitation Agreement, indicate if they’ll be for a specified amount or as determined by law.
7. Outline any restrictions on inheritance
Indicate if there are any restrictions on the inheritance one partner receives in the event the other partner passes away.
Parties can voluntarily give up their rights to inherit from the other’s estate. By doing so, they agree to not make a claim on the other’s estate upon death. Partners will often waive rights to inheritance if they want to ensure that someone, like a dependent child, is provided for when they pass away.
Waiving rights to inheritance as a surviving partner doesn’t mean that partners can’t leave assets to each other in their wills.
8. Outline any additional clauses
Include any additional terms or conditions that your Cohabitation Agreement doesn't already cover. For example, you may want to clarify what happens to any co-owned pets.
9. Provide the signing details
State when the parties will sign the Cohabitation Agreement.
For a Cohabitation Agreement to be binding, both parties must:
- Receive independent legal advice before signing
- Attach a Certificate of Independent Legal Advice to the agreement
- Sign the Agreement in front of their lawyers
How do I terminate a Cohabitation Agreement?
To end a Cohabitation Agreement, you and your partner simply need to divide your assets and debt as specified by your agreement and go your separate ways.
Does a Cohabitation Agreement need to be notarized?
A notary public doesn’t need to witness the signing of a Cohabitation Agreement for it to be legally binding. However, it is required that each partner’s lawyer witness them sign the agreement.
Do Cohabitation Agreements hold up in court?
Cohabitation Agreements are legally binding documents that a court will recognize as long as the cohabiting couple follows the proper procedures. For example, it’s a legal requirement that both parties receive independent legal advice before signing the agreement.