How to Choose a Roommate
Whether youíve just moved out of mom and dadís house and canít afford to rent on your own, or youíre an experienced renter who lives in a high-priced market like New York City, a roommate is often unavoidable. In fact, having someone to split the rent with is a necessity for many people.
The decision to look for a roommate might be one borne of necessity, but finding the right person can be a challenge. Here are some tips on finding the right roommate:
1. Ask Your Friends Ė Asking a friend to move in with you is often the easiest option when looking for a roommate. You obviously get along with one another, and youíve probably seen the other personís living habits, so you should have a good idea of what youíre getting yourself into.
Be careful, though. Just because you get along well during your twice weekly visits to the coffee shop doesnít mean you wonít have trouble living together. Youíve probably heard at least one horror story about roommates who were best friends when they moved in together, but who no longer speak to one another.
Even though youíre friends, itís still a good idea to interview your potential roommate to make sure you both have similar expectations about chores, houseguests, and paying the rent.
2. Ask Your Siblings Ė Do you have a brother or sister who is also looking for a roommate? If friends arenít available, living with a sibling may be the next best thing. You grew up together, and youíve lived together in the past, so chances are youíll know what to expect from each other.
Just make sure that the sibling rivalry doesnít get out of hand. Remember, mom and dad arenít around to moderate your arguments anymore.
3. Put an Ad in the Newspaper Ė If youíre new in town and donít know anyone yet, or if you just canít find anyone else, running an ad in the local newspaper may be your only option. The good thing about running an ad is that you can specify what type of roommate youíre looking for. If youíre a non-smoker, and you prefer to avoid second-hand smoke, you can mention that in your ad.
By running an advertisement, youíve already pre-screened your applicants. If youíve specified certain traits that youíre looking for in a roommate, most of the people who apply will have those attributes. If you mention that you have a cat, for example, someone who is allergic, or who hates animals probably wonít call asking to be your roommate. This will make the interview process a little bit easier.
Itís important to note that your ad doesnít necessarily need to be in the newspaper. While a local paper will reach a large number of potential roommates, it usually costs money to place a classified ad. There are a number of free online options that you can use instead, such as Craigslist or Roommates.com.
After youíve figured out how youíre going to find a roommate, youíve got to make sure that you choose the right person. To do that, youíll need to interview anyone who wants to be your roommateóthat includes friends and family.
When youíre interviewing a potential roommate, you should look for a few key things. First of all, do you get along with this person? If youíre starting to dislike the person even before the interview is over, itís probably best to look for someone else.
Beyond the issue of compatibility, youíll need to talk about what responsibilities each of you will have in the household. Who will do what chores? What percentage of the rent will each person be responsible for? Splitting it evenly will be most common but, for example, you might decide that one person will pay a larger percent of the rent, but not have to do as many household chores. Make sure you decide these issues in advance.
Another issue that youíll need to discuss is houseguests. Itís probably unreasonable to assume that your roommate wonít be allowed to have guests over, but you will need to agree on what time guests should be gone by. Youíll also have to decide if guests will be allowed over during the week, or only on weekends. These might seem like trivial questions, but youíll be wishing youíd asked when your roommate and his friends keep you awake until 3 a.m. on a work night.
After youíve completed your interviews and found the right roommate, you should formalize your agreement in writing. Easy-to-use roommate agreement forms can be found online, and will allow you to clearly outline the responsibilities and issues agreed upon during your interview. By getting the agreement in writing, you lessen the chance of conflict and, more importantly, protect yourself in the event that you do have a disagreement with your roommate.